再版序言17  Second Edition
Preface

章紳士儀表19  How Should a
Gentleman Look?

一良好的個人衛生習慣21  Good Hygiene

個人清潔22 
Personal Cleanliness

氣味24 
Smell

二紳士儀容25  Gentlemen
Appearance

毛發25 
Hair

唇部31 
Lips

手與指甲31 
Hands and Nails

皮膚32 Ski n

身體32 
Body

香水32 
Perfume

三紳士體態33  Gentlemen Posture

站姿33 
Stand

坐姿34 
Sit

行姿 34 
Walk

四上電視 35  To Appear on TV

化妝 35 
Makeup

服裝 36 
Clothing

五紳士服飾 36  Gentlemen Fashion

穿衣規則 36 
Dress Rule

日常服飾 37 
Everyday wear

雞尾酒會服59 
Cocktails

正規服裝59  Formal Clothing

特殊場合61 
Special Occasions

出差時攜帶什麼服飾61 
Travel Wardrobe

男人要戴飾品嗎 62  Do Men Wear Jewelry?

紳士的其他配件64 
Other Accessories

紳士的小嗜好67 
Some Habits of Gentlemen

關於你的個人風格69 
A Word about Your Personal Style

第二章商務紳士73  Business Gentleman

一走向世界的中國商務人士74  Chinese Businessmen
in the World

語言76 
Language

禮品76 
Gift

二紳士怎樣請客77  Gentlemen
Entertaining

選擇邀請的客人78 
Choosing Guests

語言問題79 
Be Sensitive to the Language Problem

食物79 
Food

席間對話79 
Conversation at the Table

酒和飲品79 
Prepare Good Wines and Drinks

座位的安排80 
Seating Arrangements

請客的環境80 
Entertaining Environment

三出國旅行81  Going abroad for
business trip

準備行李82  Preparing Luggage

坐飛機83 
By Air

坐火車84 
By Train

入住酒店84 
At the Hotel

四商務禮儀87  Business Etiquette

善於言辭的談吐87 
Being Articulate

寒暄的作用87 
How to Say Hello

你的肢體語言88 
Your Body Language

五儀柬93  Etiquette Cards and
Letters

名片94 
Business Card

邀請95 
Invitation

使用傳真的規矩98 
Etiquette for Fax

用電子郵件的禮貌98 
Etiquette for E-mail

信件的規矩99 
Etiquette for Letters

六辦公室電話禮儀101  Etiquette for
Using Office Telephone

接聽電話101  Picking up Telephone

秘書應有的電話禮儀103 Telephone Etiquette for a
Secretary

做好電話留言103 
Telephone Message

留意時差104 
Note the Time Difference

不要煲“電話粥”104 
Don’t Occupy Telephone for Long

七相處之道105  Relations

與工作伙伴相處105  Dealing with Colleagues

老板與雇員的關繫107  Boss and Employee

與專業人士相處111 
Dealing with Professionals

介紹112 
Introduction

第三章紳士就餐禮儀115  How Does a
Gentleman Eat?

一西餐的文化背景117  Differences in
Meal Culture between the East and the West

二在西餐廳120  In a Western
Restaurant

自助餐120  Buffet

雞尾酒會121 
Cocktail Party

晚宴122 
Dinner

三餐桌的布置123  Setting up Table

餐具的擺設123 
Arrangement of Utensils

餐具的使用125 
How to Use Utensils

四西餐餐桌禮儀128  Meal Etiquette

用餐禮貌128 
Eating Etiquette

上菜順序130 
Order of Courses

進餐廳和就座順序130 
Where to Sit at the Dining Table

取菜規則131 
Serving Food

何時開始喫132 
When to Begin Eating

何時該結束132 When to End Eating

與侍者和調酒師的交流132 
Communicating with Waiter and Wine-steward

五餐桌上的特別情況134  Special Situations

感恩禱告134 
Say Grace

當不好喫的食物或異物入口時134 
If you Don’t Like the Food or Something Not Eatable

如何解決口中異味134 
How to Remove Smell from the Mouth

潑灑湯汁時135 
How to Deal with Spilling

你在節食時136 
When You Are on a Diet

咳嗽、擤鼻子時136 
Coughing and Blowing Nose

六做一個精通的美食家136  Becoming a
Gourmand

怎樣喫面包137 
How to Eat Bread

怎樣喝湯137 
How to Eat Soup

怎樣喫魚、貝類、蝸牛食品137 
How to Eat Fish,Shell,Snail

怎樣喫肉139  How to Eat Meat

怎樣喫雞140 
How to Eat Chicken

怎樣喫沙拉140 How to Eat Salad

怎樣喫意大利面141 
How to Eat Italian Pasta

怎樣喫甜品141 
How to Eat Dessert

怎樣喫水果142 
How to Eat Fruit

西式快餐和小食142 
Fast Food and Snack

七茶和咖啡143  Tea and Coffee

喝茶144 
Drinking Tea

喝咖啡145 
Drinking Coffee

八酒的藝術146  Art of Wine

選酒148 
Selecting Wine

品酒149 
Tasting Wine

敬酒150 
Toasting

餐後飲150 
After-dinner Drinks

第四章日常禮儀153  Gentleman in Daily
Life

一日常禮貌156  Daily Life
Etiquette

在公共交通工具上157 
On Public Transportation

在商場和超市159 
In a Shop and a Supermarket

洗手間的禮貌160 
Bathroom Etiquette

怎樣做一個文明的行人161  How to be a Polite Pedestrian

二開車的紳士162  Courteous Driving

在交叉路口162 
At Intersections

夜間行駛時162 
Driving at Night

高速公路上162  Driving on the Highway

不亂鳴喇叭162 
Don’t Honk Unnecessarily

不亂扔垃圾163 
Don’t Throw Rubbish out of Windows

停車163 
Parking

在停車場163 
At Parking Garage

三電話交流163  Phone Conversation

有笑容的聲音164 
The “Sound” of a Smile

家中電話禮儀164 
Telephone Etiquette at Home

四聽音樂會或上劇院165  At a Concert or
Theater

提前或準時到達165 
Arrive Ahead or on Time

在表演過程中165 
During a Performance

聽古典音樂會或歌劇166 
At a Classical Music Concert or Western Opera

手機167 
Mobile Phone

你要提早離開怎麼辦167 
How to Leave Early

音樂會的著裝167 
Dress Code of Concert

五與人相處167  How to Get Along
with Others

與服務員相處168 
Getting Along with Those Who Serve You

與銷售人員相處168  Getting Along with Sales Associates

與陌生人相處169 
Getting Along with Strangers

六紳士的財富觀念171  Rich Dad,Poor Dad

七做主人的禮貌174  Etiquette as a
Host

八做客的禮貌176  Etiquette as a
Guest

九與收禮的禮貌178  Etiquette for Gift
Giving and Receiving

送外國人哪些禮物合適178 
What Gifts Are Suitable for Foreigners

辦公室禮品179 
Office Gifts

當面打開禮物是西方的習慣180 
Open Gifts Immediately

送花181 
Sending Flowers

包裝182 
Gift Wrap

回禮182 
Returning Gifts

十常見的不良舉止183  Inappropriate
Behavior

不當使用手機183 
Improper Use of Mobile Phone

吸煙184 
Smoking Cigarettes and Cigars

隨便吐痰185 
Spitting

隨手扔垃圾186 
Littering

當眾嚼口香糖186 
Chewing Gum

當眾挖鼻孔或掏耳朵187 
Picking Your Nose or Ears

當眾搔頭皮187 
Scratching Your Head in Public

在公共場合抖腿187 
Shaking Your Legs

當眾打哈欠188 
Yawning out Loud

頻頻看表188 
Looking at Watch Frequently

第五章紳士淑女 189  Ladies and
Gentlemen

一做一個有風度的紳士191  Becoming a
Gentleman

二約會192  Dating

一個好約會的構成193 
What Makes a Good Date

約會的規則193 
Rules of Date

約會時的行為195 
Behavior during Dates

三丈夫與妻子199  Husband and Wife

怎樣處理婚姻中的矛盾201 
How to Argue

分居與離婚201 
Separation and Divorce

四在辦公室如何處理與女同事的關繫204  How to Deal with
Female Colleagues

如何與心儀的女士相處204  How to Deal with a Charming Lady 

如何避免牽扯到性騷擾206  How to Avoid Sexual Harassment 

五性與紳士206  Sex Etiquette for
the Gentleman 

附錄 Addenda 

羽西開列：中國紳士魅力難擋的十大特征208  Yue-Sai’S List of 10 Killer Traits
that Make a Chinese Gentleman lrresistible